Who is the
Dr. Lisa Love
Who is the Peaceful Self? To put it simply it is the highest and best manifestation of you! As the Peaceful Self
you are loving, compassionate, powerful, strong, radiant, beautiful, and more! All that is required is for you to
wake up and remember the
Peaceful Self that not only resides inside you, it is you at a very deep level. You
have simply forgotten the
Peaceful Self you are. And, every time you forget you are the Peaceful Self you are
more likely to fall into ways of being that create difficulty and turmoil in your life.

Peaceful Self is not simply an idealized version of you. It is much more than this. The Peaceful Self existed
before you came into being. And, it exists after you are no longer here. Though some refer to the
Peaceful Self
as your Higher Self, this is not really true. In the
Peaceful Self Process we reveal how though there is some
usefulness to thinking in terms of a higher and lower self, it does not really reflect the reality that the higher self,
Peaceful Self is you!

In the
Peaceful Self Process we attempt to bridge who you believe yourself to be (such as Lisa Love), with the
Peaceful Self you are. Then the expression of the Peaceful Self (such as Lisa Love) reflects more the qualities
of the
Peaceful Self (love, compassion, courage, strength, wisdom, etc.) no matter what is going on in your life.
To help you (for example Lisa Love) become YOU the Peaceful Self we use the metaphor of an Avatar. What is
an Avatar? For those of you who have seen the movie
Avatar or played video games you know an Avatar is an
expression or vehicle of another "you." Why refer to "you" (such as Lisa Love) as an Avatar? Because it helps
you detach from the various things the Avatar you is doing that might not reflect the
Peaceful Self.

How does the Avatar respond when it forgets the Peaceful Self? Instead of facing whatever happens in life with
qualities like love, compassion, wisdom, courage, power and so forth, the Avatar slips into believing that the only
real purpose of life is to satisfy basic survival, pleasure, and power impulses usually in unhealthy ways. The
Avatar no longer looks within to access peaceful solutions for living, it looks without. In doing so it can fall into
destructive patterns such as:

1)  Becoming addicted to sex, drugs, alcohol, shopping, romance and more to feel less emptiness and pain;
2)  Getting angry and becoming controlling and abusive as a means of forcing others to provide the security,
love, joy, and approval one feels is deserved.
3)  Acting in codependent, placating and overly sacrificial ways that leave you depleted, tired, and uncared for.
4)  Moving into shame, guilt, anxiety, anger, depression, loneliness, jealousy, feelings of abandonment or even  
despair because you no longer know how to access the qualities of the
Peaceful Self.

But, there is a way out. You can learn to bring the Avatar, the false reflection of the
Peaceful Self, into alignment
with the
Peaceful Self you truly are. That is what the Peaceful Self Process is about. Learn more by following the
links below!
The Peaceful Self. Discover
the source of love, joy, peace,
compassion, beauty, creativity,
power & wisdom within you!
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